Why is the process so hard? When there is no other way to learn apart from following a process, why do many of us want to take short cuts only to suffer or fail later?

We are in eternal haste. The end result is supposed to make us feel fulfilled. In our memories that fulfillment is so prominent(from past experiences, from cravings for prestige) that we want to rush through the process.

But fulfillment is only any good when we have given the process its due time to produce the best result we can. And when we are devoted to something, the end would only lead to another beginning.

There is a thin line here between being slow because of laziness or due to going through the process diligently.